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The Situationship
Exit Plan

30 days. One small step a day. Out of the confusion and into your self-respect era.

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You already know.

You've read the posts. You took the checklist. You know the red flags by heart.

But knowing and doing are two different things, especially when he texts "hey stranger" right as you're finally moving on.

You don't need closure from him. You need a plan for you.

What's inside

Four weeks. Four shifts.

Week 1

See it clearly

Name what this really is, without the excuses you've been making for him.

Week 2

Step back

Boundaries, mute buttons and what to do when he slides back in.

Week 3

Come back to you

Your time, your friends, your plans. Rebuild the life you put on hold.

Week 4

Choose better

Your new standards, so the next one has to actually show up.

This is for you if…

Be honest, sis.

  • You've been "talking" for months and still don't know what you are.
  • You keep saying "this is the last time" … and then it isn't.
  • You check his last active more than you check your own goals.
  • You're ready to stop waiting and start choosing yourself.
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When does it launch?

Soon. Waitlist members hear first, by email and in my DMs.

What if I'm still talking to him?

Perfect. You don't have to block anyone on Day 1. The plan meets you where you are.

Is it a course or a workbook?

A 30-day workbook: one short read and one small action a day. Print it or use it on your phone.

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Catherine is an AI character. The Situationship Exit Plan is for self-reflection and personal growth, not therapy or professional advice. If you ever feel unsafe in a relationship, please reach out to someone you trust or a local support line.

40 Things You’d Better Do Before 50

MS Maria Shinta March 3, 2016 4 min read
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Everyone lives once only. Though all of us have plenty of dreams and goals, it usually ends up with nothing done. And a number of us end up just fulfilling what others want, but not what we truly enjoy. 50 is a critical age that we’re only left with half of the time, if we’re fortunate enough to live to 100. So why not do what you want and what can make you happy as soon as possible?

Here are 40 inspiring things that worth a try before you turn 50.

  1. Go to see your favorite band.
  2. Forgive someone from your past. Holding on to bitterness is like buying poison and taking it yourself, so forgive them – even if it is only for your benefit.
  3. Cut out any toxic friends you have. They will never change, and you don’t need that negativity.
  4. Go on holiday with your best friends. Even if it is just one night away in the country it will be memorable, hilarious and fun.
  5. Travel by yourself. You can spend the day doing exactly what you want, and you will fall in love with being alone all over again.
  6. Forgive your parents for any mistakes they made while raising you. No-one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes.
  7. Book a massage after a stressful day. You deserve it!
  8. Buy coffee or lunch for someone who looks like they need it. You will both feel better afterwards.
  9. Read the books that everyone is always talking about.
  10. Go out for a meal by yourself. Wear an outfit you love, order your favorite meal and leave whenever you are ready – bliss.
  11. Volunteer for a good cause that is close to your heart.
  12. Watch your favorite movie once again.
  13. Complete a physical challenge, from a marathon to doing 10 push-ups.
  14. Quit the job you hate.
  15. Make something from scratch. It feels amazing to create something beautiful by yourself.
  16. Learn a foreign language. It will make traveling easier, and it will expand your world perspective.
  17. Find a phrase or quote that moves you and make it your personal mantra. Say it to yourself every day whenever you feel stressed or nervous.
  18. Watch the sunset. It may be a cliché, but it really is beautiful and awe-inspiring.
  19. Conquer a fear that you have struggled with for a long time. Fear only holds you back!
  20. Treat yourself to something you really want, like a pair of expensive shoes. It is okay once in a while – you deserve to own something that makes you feel happy!
  21. Send your parents flowers and tell them that you love them.
  22. Write a letter to your partner or child to tell them how much you love and care for them. Everyone deserves to feel loved sometimes, and they will keep the letter for years to come.
  23. Make the effort to like something you currently dislike, like a music genre or mushrooms – you could find out that you actually love it!
  24. Grow a plant from a seed.
  25. Visit all of your country’s historical landmarks. It will help you to learn more about your country, and you will be inspired by the beautiful things you see.
  26. Apply for your dream job. You never know what will happen!
  27. Be a mentor for someone you know. It could be a work college, a friend or someone in your family – there are people everywhere who are looking for help and advice.
  28. Go without technology for a week. You will enjoy a very peaceful and tranquil week.
  29. Do something that you may regret later. Sometimes the best things happen when we decide to take a risk.
  30. Spend a night camping under the stars.
  31. Start your own business.
  32. Live somewhere that is totally different to your home town. This will broaden your horizons and help you to understand alternative perspectives.
  33. Quit a bad habit, e.g. eating too much at a time.
  34. Email your hero to let them know how much they mean to you. Even if they never read it, you will feel better for writing it.
  35. Make a fool of yourself without feeling embarrassed.
  36. Go for a picnic on your own. You’ll learn to enjoy yourself.
  37. Read jokes and laugh until your ribs hurt.
  38. Print out your favorite photos and put them in frames around your home.
  39. Learn something you’ve never imagined before.
  40. Forgive yourself, for what you’ve regretted doing.

Via LH

 

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Maria Shinta

Freelance writer, travel blogger, web designer, digital marketer, and SAG-AFTRA background actress. Writing about personal growth, mindset, spirituality, and the digital nomad lifestyle — based everywhere and nowhere.