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Exit Plan

30 days. One small step a day. Out of the confusion and into your self-respect era.

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You already know.

You've read the posts. You took the checklist. You know the red flags by heart.

But knowing and doing are two different things, especially when he texts "hey stranger" right as you're finally moving on.

You don't need closure from him. You need a plan for you.

What's inside

Four weeks. Four shifts.

Week 1

See it clearly

Name what this really is, without the excuses you've been making for him.

Week 2

Step back

Boundaries, mute buttons and what to do when he slides back in.

Week 3

Come back to you

Your time, your friends, your plans. Rebuild the life you put on hold.

Week 4

Choose better

Your new standards, so the next one has to actually show up.

This is for you if…

Be honest, sis.

  • You've been "talking" for months and still don't know what you are.
  • You keep saying "this is the last time" … and then it isn't.
  • You check his last active more than you check your own goals.
  • You're ready to stop waiting and start choosing yourself.
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What if I'm still talking to him?

Perfect. You don't have to block anyone on Day 1. The plan meets you where you are.

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Catherine is an AI character. The Situationship Exit Plan is for self-reflection and personal growth, not therapy or professional advice. If you ever feel unsafe in a relationship, please reach out to someone you trust or a local support line.

Most Of Us Underestimate What We Can Achieve In 10 Years, Check This To Avoid Regrets

MS Maria Shinta December 28, 2016 3 min read
Reading Time: 2 minutes

Anyone can achieve their goals as long as they work on them diligently. It is human nature to want quick results, hence the common habit of overestimating what can be made in a year, and underestimating what 10 years can bring. Daily improvements can secure you only a little success, but when done over several years, the success is exponential.

Goals need to be planned in a way that they can be achieved with available resources and time. Take your time to prepare a medium-term plan with less ambitious short-term completion rates so that you do not burn out due to missed targets.

Reasons why most people underestimate what they can do in 10 years

  • You may find that you are not sufficiently confident in your abilities to achieve a higher level of success in your 10-year plan, therefore setting a lower target. The actual level of achievement could be twice or thrice as high as what you set at the beginning, meaning you lose out on a lot of possibilities.
  • The social standards around us as we grow play a significant role in limiting our potential. The society may be averse to great success, making you slow down on your targets to fit in. Also, psychological conditioning may cause one to believe they cannot achieve a given level since such great achievements are only for certain people and not them.
  • Familiarity with your surroundings can prevent you from seeking new lands. Not leaving a comfort zone has kept many people from achieving what they potentially could.

To correct this and achieve what you are capable of, you should do the following:

  1. Be fearlessly positive. Negative thoughts produce small thinking, imposing the “impossible” in your life. Think of the unlimited opportunities and embrace challenges.
  2. Visualize with no restraint. It is the lack of resourcefulness that holds people back, not the lack of resources. Envision the possibilities in the future instead of being stuck in the present or short term period.
  3. Dream big and be creative. The larger your belief, the greater your success. Brainstorm without censorship and think on how to develop your ideas into realities. Allow your imagination to flow freely, and let your dreams burn within you.
  4. Set a big long-term goal and follow it. Once you set a massive goal, focus on it with all your attention, and it will be achieved.
  5. Be inspiring. When you inspire the people around you, their success will be your success. The confidence attracts more like-minded people to your idea, making it a reality.
  6. Bite the elephant. Taking small bites of out a big goal will eventually get you where you want to go. Following through in small ways will add up to a big accumulation over 10 years.
  7. Believe in your abilities and that you have what it takes to achieve the goal you have set. Gauge your inner self, and check your feelings about what you can achieve in 10 years. If it feels like too little, then raise the stakes and push it to the end. Along the way, continually make assessments and adjust your expected level of achievement depending on circumstances that favor your success.

The post Most Of Us Underestimate What We Can Achieve In 10 Years, Check This To Avoid Regrets appeared first on Lifehack.

Source: Lifestyle

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Maria Shinta

Freelance writer, travel blogger, web designer, digital marketer, and SAG-AFTRA background actress. Writing about personal growth, mindset, spirituality, and the digital nomad lifestyle — based everywhere and nowhere.